Friday, October 16, 2009

Birthday Girl


Hannah's birthday was yesturday. We held the best birthday lunch, adorned with adorable birthday hats and noise makers (that didn't make any noise, ironically). We ate lasanga, by special request, and Sam and Vi made a delicious chesse cake. Hannah is the best birthday "zilla"! In fact, I must go because her birthday continues on with a "to do list" of 19 things for her 19th birthday. TaTa. Love, Nic

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Pumpkin Time!


Even if the weather decided to skip over Fall, other signs of Fall still remain. Today I passed the pumpkin patch on my way home from the farm. While most women want to receieve flowers as a gift , I'd rather recieve a pumpkin. I absolutely love pumpkins! Their beautiful orange color is better than any red rose I have ever seen. Therefore, I bought my pumpkin today. I am the proud owner of Palazzo Alberti's very first pumpkin!

On the Farm




I wanted to hide in my bed this morning. I was hoping that I may get lost somewhere between my velvety Brookstone Nap blanket and the unforgiving IKEA sheets. When the alarm clock squawked I gave it a forward push that sent it flying across the tile floor. This turned out to be more inconvenient ten minutes later when it relentlessly made a second attempt to set me into motion. I was told that this dance could be heard from outside my room. Thirty minutes later, I finally succumbed to the noise command and in a tizzy threw the covers halfway between the floor and the headboard where they still remain.
As a morning person, I am not normally as shrewd about waking up. However this week the season in Italy has blithely jumped from summer to winter, skipping directly over fall. This has abruptly caused the tile floor to be an inhospitable place for feet at 8am. John Rose is concerned about fresh air and I am concerned about warm air. Can I please have a portable heater for my room?
Unfortunately, I did not get to stay in bed all day. Francesca arrives promptly at 9am for Italian class and if you are not in the class room by 9:10, someone is coming to look for you. This is not a conventional private university or even similar to being at Meredith where your presence will not be missed amongst 40 students. This is a family at a dinner table and if you are not at your place when dinner is served a search party is dispersed. You cannot skip class in the Palazzo Alberti by sleeping because a siren of voices louder than the irritating alarm clock will implode your slumber.
While skipping class is not an option, skipping lunch is out of the question. If Margarita is cooking, I will be at the table regardless of how sick, tired, or broken I might be. This is normally the most enjoyable part of any day and as John Rose say, we host the best restaurant in Sansepolcro. Today our 20 position table was full of guests. The day could not get any better than this!
Or could it?
This afternoon my science class was scheduled to attend a wine pressing. While I realize how fortunate I am to be in Italy, I did not apprehend how opportune it is to see such event. Following a brigade of intrigued Americans, we rode our bikes about 4km alongside the sensual panoramic of the Tuscan hills and arrived on a private farm. In true Italian fashion we were warmly greeted and welcomed as old friends. The large farm house had been built in 1619 and consisted of multiple cellars a few stories deep. Besides the fact that I have never seen a house this old in the United States, I was captivated by the story this house would tell if it could speak. I thought about World War II and my resent studies on the havak caused by the Nazis on private properties in Italy. Who had lived here? What is their story? The current residents are a family of eight. Besides a vineyard, they have a classic farm complete with chickens, roosters, pigeons, doves, a garden, pigs, cows, hay, honey bees, and all that is generated hanging to cure or canned on a shelf in the barn. I am positive there is even a writing spider in the entryway. Furthermore, I was reminded that I was still in Italy on account of the clothes line strung between the barn and the house. I felt at home in this place, which is strange since I have not lived a day in my life in this manner. I can say that I grew up on a farm because I did in a sense. Merry Bee Farm will always be my home and haven. Nevertheless I did not grow up having to chase the rooster back into the pen or harvest to crop when the date demanded. These things I missed and I am afraid that my generation is detached from this lifestyle. I want my future children (fingers crossed) to experience this one day. I hope the subsequent generation will value the simplicity of canning summer tomatoes for sauce and picking eggs out the coop for breakfast. In any case, this is where it all begins.
After enjoying fresh cheese from the cow’s milk, eating ham cured cut down from the barn ceiling, and drinking Vinsanto, offered only to the most special of guest, I finally realized I had chosen the right faculty! I informed Dr. Swabb that she had a great deal of work to do to top this field trip!

Opps!

I received a gracious email from Maureen Banker today explaining more about the sketching we recieved yesturday. I was ignorant to how they are actually done and the significance of the numbers 5/99, which is not the date, as I previously thought. Because her information is interesting and helpful I wanted to post it here. I hope it clears up any confusion, especially for those, like me, who know little about art. -Nic

"The etching I gave to all of you Immortal Nine is done first as a drawing on a metal plate. (in reverse!!!) Then the plate is inked with special ink/paint. The ink is forced into the lines of the drawing that are reinforced with an acid bath that literaly bites the drawn lines deeper. The ink left on the top levels of the plate is wiped away. Then the plate is printed on handmade paper with a special etching press that forces the ink in the lines of the plate to be transferred to the special paper. Each original print is produced in this manner. As the prints are completed, they are numbered. On the left side of the bottom is a pair of numbers. Yours has 5/99. This means that of the potential etchings in the edition( edition means ultimate number of prints decided by the artist that will be made) is 99. I picked the number 99 before I even knew that there would be an immortal 9 students!! And your 5/99 means that yours was the fifth etching printed from the master plate of metal! I did the drawing for the plate, and the prints, all in late 2008 and early 2009."- Maureen

Monday, October 12, 2009

Mail!



Lick-or-Treat! Happy Halloween! Love, Ranger, Callie, & Clark (Especially me!) "We miss you!"

My dogs sent me a Happy Halloween card today. They are so clever! I had no idea that those three could write a letter, lick a stamp, and address an envelope. I may have to reconsider Clark's training school. Thanks Pups!

Good thing Mom has my address...

To Nicole, one of the Immortal Nine: We missed your optimism and obvious love and understanding of the Italian culture in our class. We hope you return. Continue to run!

This was a sketch of Palazzo Alberti (my home!!) from Via XX Settembre by Marueen Banker. She gave all 9 girls original sketches of the building. The one given to me was done in May, 1999. I am honored to be apart of a program with so much history. I became teary eyed today as I read the guest book. Thanks Marueen and Jim Banker for finding Sansepolcro and making it our home in Italy!

rainy day inspiration


I have decided that a few pictures might jazz up this blog. Sometimes photographs tell stories that even the best writers cannot do justice. Therefore, I think I will start adding pictures.

Love yall' Nic


Flexibility and Reflection


Our motto at the palazzo has come to be something along the lines of “make plan, attempt plan, and abandon plan!” This seems a pretty accurate mantra for my weekend. After a certain series of unfortunate events, my weekend in Ferrara did not turn out the way I planned. Christina was supposed to come to Italy, I was supposed to have lunch with a friend, and I was to travel to Verona on Saturday. But after Christina’s abrupt illness and a death of a family member of the friend, I resorted to abandoning the plan. This is when it would be useful to have a plan B. However, I was unprepared without a plan B. Because of this, I did a lot of sitting around staring at the wall. This was totally absurd, completely out of my character. I found myself alone, a state of being very eccentric for someone who lives with twelve women. I was provided with plenty of time to reflect on the four months I spent in Ferrara last fall. My weekend seemed so lonely, devoid of the Americans whom I spent most of my time with in Ferrara. It is easy to fall in love with a city alongside people who share the same gratification in its attraction. However to return without these people is a whole different narrative. Alternatively I am not one to live in the past. I have great memories but am also constantly creating new ones. I have discovered that it is never the physical location that makes a moment special, but rather the people whom with you share the moment. I think I described it best in my journal from last fall. Here is an excerpt from when I was preparing to leave Ferrara to spend Christmas in Germany. For the sake of veracity, I have not changed anything about what I wrote last December. In this moment I must have been feeling so many emotions. What astonishes me is that even almost a year later, I still feel the same way.

December 19, 2008
Flexibility: This is what I have learned from living in a foreign country. When the train starts to take off and you’re not on it, you have to be willing to wait an hour for the next one. When the bus drops you off on the sidewalk and drives away with the man carrying your Christmas tree, you just have to laugh. And even when you’re new culture conforms to your biggest pet peeve, you must be flexible as rubber band ball.
It feel like I woke up today in a paradox universe. I’m confronted with so many questions and so much anxiety about leaving my new home. But where actually is home? Maybe Ferrara is just home because of the people here that I have come to love so dearly. As they leave one by one to return to the United States, I realize that my turn is soon to come. Winnie the Pooh told Piglet something that I find myself thinking of in times as these. He said, “If you live to be a hundred, I hope that I live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live a day without you.” As glad as I am to be in Italy for a few short weeks longer, I am distressed that my American friends will not be here with me. As I bike around Ferrara, I know some of the most precious things in Italy I have taken for granted. My friends and I often have reality check moments. When you are sitting on the steps of the cathedral having a drink and talking with friends, it is almost necessary to take a moment and look around. I think to myself, I’m in sitting in front of a fourteenth century building as if it is normal to be surrounded by such wonders. I have become accustom to cobblestone paved streets and bikes creating Monday morning traffic jams on my way to school. Soon I am in for a major culture shock.
As the train pulls out of the station, I wave goodbye to my home of four months. I leave so much behind, including some old clothes and raggedy exercise gear. However, I know that I have left something more special. A piece of me will always remain in Ferrara. It is in this place I have made friendships that will last a lifetime and memories that are stamped on the pages of heart. In two weeks time, I will return to collect my luggage and catch a flight back to the United States. I’m afraid that even after two weeks it will not be the same in Ferrara. I will not walk into my apartment and pick up the phone to call a friend. Christina will not be there to have afternoon coffee and make whipped cream cookie towers with me. Mike will not be around to pacify my culinary cravings with his Ragu. Ellie and Kate will not be drinking frizzantino from Interspar or heaven forbid boxed wine. And as I welcome the hospitality of my dear friends Sonia and Federico, I know Loba Loca will not be the same without my crazy American friends.


Nicole

Sunday, October 11, 2009

A few thoughts

I believe that sometimes it’s the intricate and obscure we comprehend, but the complete obvious that eludes us.
“Do not hurry to speak or be in a hurry as you think what to tell God. For God is in heaven and you are on the earth. So let your words be few.” – Ecclesiastes 5:2
I know for certain that God does answer prayers. In fact, when you pray for his desires and not your own, these prayers may come quicker than anticipated. God’s time is not our time. We may want him to wait till were ready, or prepared for the change. But the father of the universe always knows the perfect time to provide. The good news is he doesn’t give without resource. He always supplies us with the tools in which to take the next step- to climb that mountain which seems to be growing bigger before our eyes. I once heard it said that “God gives us enough to take the next step, but not the next three”. I cannot see past this moment; I can only be certain of the present. God sees forever and he has my wellbeing in mine. Today, my happiness comes from continually wanting his desires for my life. And because of this, I am happy today- Content with this moment in life.

Monday, October 5, 2009

The Week of First


This week has certainly been a week of “first” experiences. Furthermore it has been a humorous, physically grueling, sensory overwhelming, and ultimately rewarding week. On Saturday, we welcomed twenty-three Meredith College faculty, trustees and alumnae to Sansepolcro for the Open House of Meredith College in Italy. As they arrived our job, as the immortal nine, was to slough their luggage to their corresponding hotels. Thus I must begin recounting the “firsts” of the week. As the first group of students to Study Abroad through Meredith College in Italy, we have been titled the “Immortal Nine”. This has historical reference to the first 10 graduates of Meredith College in 1902, termed “Immortal Ten”. Reminiscent of these 10 women, we are making history for Meredith in Italy. This history in progress is what brought all of these Meredith personnel, who are as diverse as their ages, to Sansepolcro. The group encompasses Meredith’s President and Vice President, professors, spouses of Meredith faculty, alumnae, friends of alumnae, and my favorite, two women affectionately known as “double trouble”. These two women are in their 80s and Meredith College graduates of 1946. While in college they were roommates and every since have remained good friends. Interestingly enough these two women participated in the first Cornhuskin’ held at Meredith. Both women have found favor with all nine students. We have come to adore them and claim each as adopted grandmothers. This is the reason we refrained from questioning why their luggage appeared as if they were immigrating to Italy instead of visiting for the week.
They’re other equally as lovely people in attendance this week. A good friend of my grandmothers, Lou Tibbet, is visiting as a Meredith Alumna. Mrs. Tibbet was the reason my mom acquired her first high school job at Hudson Belk in Fayetteville. She reminds me of what my grandmother, Mildred, would personify if she were still alive. Mrs. Tibet is vivacious and youthful. I have truly enjoyed becoming acquainted with these women.
On Sunday before the open house festivities began, Hannah and I woke up early to run our first race. I must mention that this was a “non competiva” (non competitive) so called 5k “fun run”. Nevertheless we were enthusiastic about our first event. Additionally, to wrap up from a previous blog, a girl’s dreams can come true! There was not a lack of cute Italian men in spandex. And to make matters even more appealing, because these men in spandex were competitive, they were in front of me. I was reminded of the notorious Raleigh “skirt chaser” in which women sporting petite running skirts take off two minutes before the men. In this case, five-hundred very attracted men took off two minutes ahead of me. If nothing else I was visually encouraged to keep running due to the scenery. Dr. Swab and her husband spontaneously decided the night before to run in this event, which Hannah and I had strategically planned on running in for a few weeks. I am both embarrassed and flattered to say that I was out run by my professor who is more or less 40 years my senior. In my defense she has been running since before I was born and I have only been a weekly runner since June. Anyhow, the excitement of the race outweighed the outcome. I finished in around 33 minutes in close proximity of a very handsome man in spandex. I dashed (wishful thinking) past him at roughly kilometer 3, but he did not surrender to my challenge. Characterizing true male egotism he assumed leap frog with me until the finish line, where I must say we finished simultaneously. He should have saved his energy. The Jane Austin in me was not going to let him defy my pride!
At the finish line, I won my first prize for a race. There could be no better place to run in an event than in Italy. Plus I doubt there is anywhere else in the world that would present a pound of cheese as a reward for participating. I thought I might have muddled translation when a fellow runner told me in Italian that I was going to get a huge block of cheese at the end. This was almost too good to be true. There were also apples and bread smothered in Nutella. I was the happiest runner alive! Next month, I will be running in a 10km with the Swabs and Hannah. This will be yet another first: the first time I have run over 6 miles continuously.
With all these people buzzing around the palazzo, I have become accustom to our private space being common stomping ground. With the open house yesterday, I think that everyone who does not reside in Palazzo Alberti still considers themselves at home inside our home. This is not a problem, yet a result of good hostessing. However there is no privacy, nowhere to hide. Lauren and Samantha locked themselves in the bathroom yesterday. I believe about 400 hundred people were in the palazzo, which would validate the bathroom as a first-class sanctuary. It was a grand event and all of Sansepolcro was curious to see the results of all the labor completed here. There has also been lots of publication about our “American University” in Italy. On Saturday morning we were pleasantly surprised to find an article about the college headlining the newspaper. Then today Chelsea and I were interviewed by a journalist for an article about the students. It was not only my first interview, but my first interview in Italian. With this bustle I have had many opportunities for language integration. And because Giacomo has not been around, I have actually been speaking Italian. Go figure. When my Italian friend is not here, I speak Italian.